Overheard at home before meal time, “What’s the fuss all about? It’s just us eating, don’t bother with it.” Setting the table is so much more than just another mealtime chore. Cultures across the world set their tables in distinctive ways. The way we set our tables not only reflects our culture; but also directs the way we interact with each other at mealtimes and ultimately influences how we receive our food. Here’s why table setting is important at home:

Why table setting is important at home:

  1. The way we set our tables at mealtimes reflects our culture. Without the food or the people, a traditional setting can indicate geographical location, eating habits and rituals.
  2. The kind of cutlery (flatware), positioning of the dinnerware (plates and serving dishes), glassware and place mats defines the way exchange food and ultimately interact with each other. “Would you be a dear and pass the salt, please?”
  3. The use of table settings enhances food as a social experience. It also indicates the feeling that people have about being together. It lets people know that you think they are important enough to put in extra effort for them. “This is beautiful!”
  4. A well thought out table setting also influences the appearance of the food served. We eat with our eyes, after all!
  5. The way we set our tables can influence how well we digest our food. Making sure all the required tableware and condiments are at the table means nobody needs to get up from their seat to bring forgotten things. “I’ll be right back!”
  6. A task to share – Mom did the shopping, Dad did the cooking. Kids do the eating? Delegating the task of setting up the table for a family meal and clearing it down once finished is a great way to get the children involved at mealtime. This is not only a great opportunity for children to learn dining etiquette and table manners; but also the perfect way to simulate that business dinner they’ll head to before you know it. PS: Pass on the washing, too.

Setting the Table, an exploration of eating rituals across cultures that goes far beyond four legs and a surface.